Comments on: She did not wear lemon http://x.superbadgirl.com/blog/archives/3744 if it was up to me, it wouldn't be up to you. Thu, 22 Jul 2010 18:15:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Brian S. http://x.superbadgirl.com/blog/archives/3744/comment-page-1#comment-22053 Brian S. Tue, 23 Jun 2009 22:19:29 +0000 http://x.superbadgirl.com/blog/?p=3744#comment-22053 20's is all about freedom of choice... 30's on the other hand -- bonne chance. 20′s is all about freedom of choice… 30′s on the other hand — bonne chance.

]]> By: Stevo Darkly http://x.superbadgirl.com/blog/archives/3744/comment-page-1#comment-22048 Stevo Darkly Tue, 23 Jun 2009 19:49:07 +0000 http://x.superbadgirl.com/blog/?p=3744#comment-22048 <i>I just have to stop talking to people about my shit and asking their opinions, because their opinions confuse me, and I am going to do what I damn well please anyway. Why is so much of being an adult isolating yourself in these ways? </i> Probably because you are an individual in your own right, and an especially independent one, not just the average of the opinions of everyone else you know. Not that social pressures don't, or shouldn't, exist. It's tough. But in the end, you must do what YOU feel is right, of course. Just like Obi-Wan Kenobi said. I just have to stop talking to people about my shit and asking their opinions, because their opinions confuse me, and I am going to do what I damn well please anyway.

Why is so much of being an adult isolating yourself in these ways?

Probably because you are an individual in your own right, and an especially independent one, not just the average of the opinions of everyone else you know.

Not that social pressures don’t, or shouldn’t, exist.

It’s tough. But in the end, you must do what YOU feel is right, of course. Just like Obi-Wan Kenobi said.

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